Game works... yes it does!

This is a very interesting topic to me. I see a lot of guys that get into game and even after weeks and months, sometimes even years of being in it, they still question themselves and ask if it really works, even after they have seen results they are still in some weird denial where they think "they just got lucky" or that "it is just a numbers game". I've even met guys that have been "in the game" for years and due to not having a real understanding of what they are doing they think it's just a numbers game - fools -.

Don't get me wrong if all you do is go out roaming the streets building up the courage to approach a couple of women, stating your intent and getting blown off, and you have little to none social skills, nor verbal skills. Then yes! you are playing a numbers game.

At best you are hoping to meet a girl that resonates with your weirdness or that happens to resonate with you on some level.

Maybe she is from a third world country and if you are from a "better" country than her then she feels like she is winning with you even if you are socially akward. - I see a lot of this, (guys that only feel comfortable talking to women "below them" be it socially, financially or even lookswise)

But the purpose of being an attractive, seductive man is to operate ouside the norm, to not be constricted by the societal rules that have been sold to you, to not conform to the norm not to get in a flight to Colombia "Where game is easy" and say that you have game there.

"Getting lucky" is not game

Yes Getting lucky is not game. Now, you can go out and approach 1000 women and you will get lucky, by the nature of it if you are a decent looking normal enough guy some woman has to like you - if you get zero results from doing that you have some serious work to do on yourself -. But that is a waste of time and effort that you could be employing in learning proper social and verbal skills.

And believe me, if you work on those areas you'll be getting results before you get to approach 100 women. It will take you so long to approach 100 women because you are actually interacting with most of the women you talk to.

You'll be busy exchanging numbers, going back and forth with women that are interested in you. Interactint with them at bars, parties, cafes, on the street and most importantly actually learning and getting better.

That is not to say that you will not "get rejected" or that having game means you never will. But simply put, the better you get the more you'll optimise your results.

Having said that there is a caveat to this... Don't fall for the egomaniachal trap of not wanting to get rejected. And overthinking every interaction. After all "The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried." You might think I'm contradicting myself but it's up to you to see past this nuances and figure it out.

Now you can play the numbes game all you want and deny yourself the opportunity to get better results but know that some of us literally do live in a different dimension. A demension where we have maximised our resources and get the kind of women we like and have the previlige to pick and choose. And this is indepent of our looks, height, money or status. We are cool attractive men and we thrive in any environment, we problem solve and find a way, we understand nuances and we learn and adapt.

The rules that apply to some don't apply to us, we are the exeption to the rule and you could be too. Provided you do the work...

...Game works!